Tuesday, November 4, 2008

What a Day


This was the best day ever. I will never forget this moment. The director of the orphanage was holding Maia, and finally handed her to Laurie. I wish there were words to describe how we were feeling. Wow, just wow! She is more than we ever expected. Now that I showed you the good part, here is the rest of the story.






When we flew into Hanoi Sunday Morning, from the air it looked like there was flooding, terrible flooding, everything looked underwater, roads, houses businesses. I wish I had taken photos.

When we contacted PLAN on Sunday, they told us we would go to BaVi Tuesday if it stopped raining Monday. It did for the most part.

Tuesday morning we woke up to rain, lots of rain..

But, after a light breakfast we got in the van, and met the other two families. They told us of their failed attempt to go to BaVi on Friday. Traffic and flooding made the trip impossible.












After a couple miles it did not look good. The roads were underwater in the city and we had a long way to go outside the city. We were all determined to get there somehow.

There was water everywhere, the roads were packed, and most roads were not much more than one lane wide.















The drivers use their horns continuously. "I go beep beep they go this way, I go beep beep they go that way", was the way one driver explained it. It was just like you see in the movies, we were flying along, scooters and other vehicles inches away on either side.





Then we stopped. Our driver got out and started walking, that is him with the cover over his head. that is not a jet ski coming toward him, it is a moped. When cars on the other side started turning around and we all thought it was over for the day. Of the three routes to the orphanage, the other two were not passable and this one looked the same. Finally he got back in and we convinced him to try it. We pushed on with the water up to the doors.

We were able to continue on to the orphanage across some roads that resembled paths and through more mud and water than you can imagine...


Then we finally pulled up to the gate and the sign we were all looking for.


After meeting with the director in a formal meeting room, we were all told to go to see our babies.





Two were in the last room for older ones and the other was in the first room.


It was incredible, they were so much smaller than I had imagined Their room for 10 to 15 babies was about 10ft by 15 feet. They were all asleep and I knew her right away. Before we could pick her up, the director did and began to play with her.

Soon the nanny, definitely her main nanny had her and was showering her with love.






We both got our picture with this wonderful young woman who had such a special bond with our little daughter while she was here. We will make sure Maia never forgets her.

I tried to let Laurie see Maia and let the Nannies say their good byes as they passed her around and around kissing her and telling her things.





I got to hold my little buddy Tu whose mom and dad are waiting to pick him up. I got some photos of another little boy, Ryan, who is definitely the big man on campus.





Maia's little friend was also there meeting her family. They are so cute together.











I printed some pictures of the nannies with Maia on a couple other families visits and also pictures with Maria, when she visited. The Nannies went absolutely crazy looking at the photos, laughing and grabbing them like they were thousand dollar bills.



Jenna sent some slings which they were modeling and carrying around the babies and formula us and the other families brought for for Ryan. They also marveled at the photos of Ella with her beautiful new lip.



It was one of the most awesome hours of my life. I finally got my turn to hold the other woman in my life. Two women, it is bound to be trouble for me. Then it was time to go.



That is when the real adventure began. The roads had become worse and our ride was almost 3 hours back to the City. Every road ended in blockage, retracing our path and heading down narrower and bumpier roads, through little towns and back alleys, fields and washed out roads.


Even the main roads in town were underwater when we came back. When we finally made it back we got a quick bath, ate some pizza and headed for the SOS Clinic for a little check up and some medicine for her raspy breathing. Finally off to Bed, as my friend Maria would say "What a Day".

13 comments:

Leigh and Anthony said...

What an adventure! Congratulations.

mrs robinson said...

ok...so I'm bawling my eyes out!! what an adventure for you both. Maia looks wonderful and seems to be ok..not too overwhelmed. We think about you all of the time. Conrats! mrs robinson

Kris Conroy said...

Congrats Darrin and Laurie--she is beautiful!!

Melanie said...

Oh my Gosh..the tears wont stop rolling down my cheeks! She is beautiful..what a wonderful thing! Congrats to the whole family, what a journey! Cant wait to see you all! We're thinking of you everyday!
LOVE
Melanie&Marty
Addison,Olivia,&Little Marty

Anonymous said...

Seriously, you guys. We're all in tears over here! It's such a wonderful, wonderful time for you - enjoy every moment of it. I can't imagine the anxiety of what it must have been to think you might not make it to the orphanage yesterday. Way to perservere!!! She's just so beautiful! We're all addicted to this site - keep adding stuff - it's awesome!!!

The Anchor's

The Warnke's said...

You will remember yesterday for so many reasons but especially because that was the day you added to your family! Maia doesn't even know how much she is loved ALREADY! Can't wait to meet her and see all of you when you get back :) Wishing you safe travels!
Love,
Leza and Mike

Cheryl said...

Wow! It truly was an adventure of a lifetime to get to Maia!! What an incredible story!! She is beautiful and finally in your arms! Yippee!

Jessica said...

What a beautiful posting! I have tears in my eyes. I'm so happy for your family. Can't wait to see little Maia playing outside with her brothers!

Sandra & Steve said...

Extraordinary day! You were all very brave to head out in those conditions but quite obviously it was more than worth it. Your daughter is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your joy with us.

Mary and Mark said...

What a harrowing trip, but well worth it! Congratulations on your beautiful little girl.

johnson's said...

congrats laurie & darrin! we are so happy for you and your family! maia is so beautiful and we can't wait to meet our new cousin! travel safe! love, julie, terrance, ian, and olivia

Susan A. said...

Congratulations! What an adventure to your beautiful little girl- it will be a great story to tell her some day! Enjoy your time there with Maia!

stollmyheart said...

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations! So awesome to see she's finally in your arms! I can't even imagine what that ride must have been like...I was so stressed and that was with clear/dry roads!

Thanks so much for taking along the slings and pictures! I'm glad they arrived on time :) Can't wait to keep reading!